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My Father

My father loved his grandchildren very much, and they loved him. My sister Cora, her husband and baby lived with him. She lived on the second floor. She lived there until my brother Tony got married. Tony and his bride Minnie then lived on the second floor. After a few years Tony's wife got sick, so they moved out. My brother Nick was married to Molly by now, so they moved in. Molly was very good to my father. She cleaned his apartment, cooked for him and washed his clothes. My brother Nick would shave him and cut his hair.

I would take my father to stay with me one week at a time so they could paint his apartment or if he wasn't too well. When we moved to Closter we had my father for a week. I put a single bed in a small room near the kitchen. He loved to sit near the kitchen window and look out at the beautiful lawn and tennis court. My father would say to me that it was nice that my husband's boss allowed him to stay here. Poor Pop, we couldn't make him understand that we owned the place. I guess he just couldn't believe that we saved enough money to buy this big place. My father lived until he was 89 years old. He was a widower for almost 30 years.


Copyright 2000 Richard A. DeVenezia. All Rights Reserved.

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Ann DeVenezia Wednesday, March 14 2001, 06:48 pm
Grandpa Zaccagnio

Limping along the peeling porch rail
his left leg dragging
from cutting off his cast with an axe
Grandpa Zaccagnio chanted
   Life was, life is,life will be
At sixteen he had left Abruzzi
   To make a better life

A bachelor when my widowed grandmother
walked past him on the street
he fell in love and wanted children of his own
daughters or sons
   Just let the baby be healthy
Married at forty-two he sired
my mother and her two brothers

At Sunday Mass he crossed himself slowly
prayed the rosary daily
joined the Sons of Italy
Forum Club and Knights of Columbus
wept when his twenty-year wife died

On hot days he wore a white handkerchief
knots in each corner, an amazing hat
We liked to play cards with him
to hear the wall clock ticking
to watch him mend slacks and socks
in his solitary home
where the children brought him meals
and his son shaved his beard

When my sister tap danced to "Alexander's Ragtime Band"
chewing up linoleum in the dining room
near the wind up Victrola
he would hide the handle
Then my mother would plead
   C'mon Pop give them a nickel
   to buy an ice cream cone
and he dug in his pocket for coins
sending us off to Sandello's with warnings
   Come right back home

- Ann DeVenezia
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