The answer to your question in the other thread about 8 golf players and 2 matches of 4, is that you need 7 rounds - at which point all players will have played each other 3 times. A suitable schedule would be:
(4 7 6 1) (8 5 3 2)
(8 2 1 7) (5 6 3 4)
(3 2 7 6) (1 8 4 5)
(6 1 5 2) (7 3 4 8)
(2 4 8 6) (3 5 7 1)
(6 8 5 7) (4 1 2 3)
(1 3 6 8) (7 4 2 5)
This may be the best possible option for your tournament. If you mix match sizes then there are far fewer options - for example with 10 players and one 4-player match and one 6-player match per round, you would need 15 rounds of play where each player plays each other 7 times. If that's not too large for you I could post a schedule.