This plan may work for you. Females are even numbered and Males odd.
round team1 team2 team3 team4
1 (16,2,3,5) (10,15,6,9) (4,11,13,14) (7,1,8,12)
2 (16,12,13,15) (5,10,1,4) (14,6,3,7) (2,11,8,9)
3 (16,4,5,7) (12,2,15,1) (6,13,8,11) (9,3,10,14)
4 (16,7,11,14) (8,10,15,5) (9,1,12,6) (3,4,13,2)
5 (16,14,5,9) (15,2,3,6) (1,8,10,11) (4,13,7,12)
6 (16,3,7,10) (4,6,11,1) (5,12,14,15) (8,2,9,13)
7 (16,9,2,7) (10,12,13,1) (11,3,14,8) (5,6,15,4)
8 (16,5,9,12) (6,8,13,3) (7,14,1,2) (10,4,11,15)
9 (16,11,4,9) (12,14,15,3) (13,5,2,6) (1,10,7,8)
10 (16,13,6,11) (14,1,2,5) (15,7,4,8) (3,12,9,10)
There are 78 pairs with repeats. 40 occur twice, 28 thrice and 10 four times. 17 pairs are repeats as opponents-only, 17 as teammates-only and 44 split between as mate and opponent.
6 pairs (out of 120 possible) never occur.
It was derived from the 16-player Whist schedule and popped out after running through some combinatoric and balancing transformations.