I think the schedule below will work. Pairs of players play together either 3 or 4 times. Player numbers 2 & 10 have 4 foursomes and 8 threesomes, while all other players have 5 foursomes and 7 threesomes.
Hope that helps.
( 8 1 6 5) (3 2 9) ( 7 10 4)
( 9 8 4 10) (7 1 2) ( 5 3 6)
( 6 3 8 7) (1 2 4) (10 5 9)
( 1 9 10 5) (3 8 2) ( 7 6 4)
( 2 10 7 9) (8 6 5) ( 1 4 3)
( 5 7 1 3) (4 6 9) ( 2 10 8)
(10 6 2 3) (5 4 9) ( 1 8 7)
( 6 9 1 7) (3 10 4) ( 8 2 5)
( 6 4 8 2) (7 5 10) ( 9 3 1)
( 2 5 4 1) (8 7 9) ( 6 3 10)
( 4 9 3 8) (1 10 6) ( 2 5 7)
( 4 3 5 7) (1 8 10) ( 6 2 9)
4,4,2 will probably seem more uneven given that some players will play twosome more times than others. But here is a possible schedule:
( 9 10 8 5) (6 3 7 2) (1 4)
( 4 2 9 1) (5 10 8 7) (6 3)
( 8 7 1 6) (5 4 10 3) (9 2)
(10 8 6 4) (3 2 1 9) (7 5)
( 3 7 9 4) (6 2 5 10) (8 1)
( 5 2 1 7) (6 8 4 3) (9 10)
(10 1 7 3) (9 5 8 4) (6 2)
( 7 10 6 9) (4 8 2 1) (3 5)
( 5 3 8 2) (1 10 9 6) (4 7)
( 6 4 5 2) (7 3 9 8) (1 10)
( 3 1 6 5) (2 7 10 4) (8 9)
(10 2 8 3) (5 6 1 9) (7 4)
Player numbers 1,4,7 & 9 have 3 twosomes and 9 foursomes, the other players have 2 twosomes and 10 foursomes. So the former have a total of 30 playing partners (counting repeats), while the latter have 32 playing partners.